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What do you picture when you think of when you think of a model\u2019s lifestyle? Most of us picture the glitz and the glam, and whilst that\u2019s often the case, you need to remember that not everyone is living the high life that we often see on our television screens.<\/p>\n

When your mum told you that there\u2019s more to life than looks, she was right, there\u2019s a whole load of living that goes on outside of the aesthetics. To make it big in any industry, you often have to fight hardships and negativity to get stronger, and the same is true of modelling. Things shouldn\u2019t be handed to you on a plate, of course not, but there are times when it goes beyond that \u2013 and that\u2019s not okay.<\/p>\n

Even when you\u2019ve \u201cearned\u201d your place, you may still face hardships, in the form of bullying. New models and experienced models, both famous and unknown, have been known to suffer from this kind of behaviour. It doesn\u2019t make it alright. It shouldn\u2019t just be a natural hardship. Bullying in modelling is something\u00a0that\u2019s consciously done to you, and it\u2019s not acceptable.<\/p>\n

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We\u2019re not trying to put anyone off modelling, but many people who are already getting their foot in the door as a model have experienced some form of negative reaction from their peers, particularly when they\u2019re younger and in school. In fact, it doesn\u2019t even tend to stop once school ends \u2013 it\u2019s just exacerbated in that kind of environment.<\/p>\n

Sadly, the jealousy and bitterness that leads to this kind of reaction in the first place often extends to comments on social media, or in person, across a model\u2019s career.<\/p>\n

Is It Just You?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Modelling is a dream for a lot of people, but it\u2019s not always easy. Now, we\u2019re not saying to give up. Some of the biggest models the world has ever seen experienced bullying, and now look at them! If you\u2019re being picked on in school or even as an adult at University or work, you are not alone.<\/p>\n

All kinds of supermodels have faced taunts and jibes at the hands of their fellow students or colleagues<\/a>. It\u2019s not fair, but everyone from Lily Cole to Rosie Huntington-Whiteley reports having to face such issues. Clearly, these women are stunning, successful and worthy of the careers they have chosen.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not just the really big household names. Sometimes people defend picking on the super-famous because they don\u2019t consider their humanity. These women and men have personalities just like anyone else; and yet people think they\u2019re somehow \u2018fair game\u2019 because they chose to be in the public eye. Making rude comments about successful people just seems so pointless, and yet people do it time and time again.<\/p>\n

In schools, a lot of young people don’t want to stand out or seem different; and modelling can set you apart from your peers. Jealous individuals may then target you, but it’s not just models who face this. Bullies will go after anyone they see as different, just for kicks. It’s to make them feel better about their own lives.<\/p>\n

What Kind Of Things Might You Be Up Against?<\/strong><\/p>\n

One model, who wishes not to be named, told me about her experiences when she was a glamour and alternative model. She was very successful and posed for a number of titles including having the front cover of FRONT magazine, as well as features in ZOO, Nuts, The Star and car magazines like FastCar and Moto. She also worked with clothing lines and lots more \u2013 so she had an experienced profile. When it comes to bullying in modelling, she’s no stranger.<\/p>\n

She told me:<\/p>\n

\u201cWhen modelling for Zoo I shot a feature and they put a video of it on YouTube. I have never been confident about my bum (I\u2019ve got back dimples which I hate and my bum just isn’t very big). So the video goes up and I started reading comments mocking my figure. ‘Omg I thought it was a man from the back’ and ‘Ew, she has an ass like an old lady’…..that was just one shoot. I even had the photographer from The Star tell me my boobs were ‘wonky’ just as I was about to test for them. I soon learnt to not read anything about myself as when you put yourself out there as a model people feel it is their duty to knock you down a peg or two by pointing out your flaws as they assume you must be full of confidence.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Reading this model\u2019s account is really disheartening, especially considering some abuse came from within. She was over 18 when this was happening, and so the vast majority of the nastiness came from adults who arguably should have known better.<\/p>\n

She finished up by saying:<\/p>\n

\u201cThe industry has left me with more insecurities that I had before, which is difficult to believe as many have his preconception that you much just get praise 100% of the time and be full of self-confidence.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

It isn\u2019t just the professionals who put themselves out there to a wide audience. Unfortunately, some people who have photoshoots either to feel better about themselves or to start out their career can suffer negativity as well.<\/p>\n

I spoke to a prominent blogger named Petra<\/a> who recently did a shoot for a brand:<\/p>\n

\u201cRecently I did\u00a0a\u00a0photoshoot for\u00a0a\u00a0maternity\/breastfeeding underwear brand and when I showed my mother-in-law the photos she said she didn’t recognise me and that she thought I would have looked much slimmer without my clothes on.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

She never thinks before she speaks… “<\/em><\/p>\n

It can happen of course to male models, too. Men feel pressure on body image as well, although they are often afraid to talk about it. Other boys and men might be jealous of a model but unable to express this in a reasonable manner. There are often elements of homophobia due to the perceived effeminate nature of modelling. This is again another unacceptable myth which is perpetuated.<\/p>\n

Why Do People Bully Models?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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It\u2019s strange \u2013 so often we hear about people being bullied for being perceived as unattractive or not fitting in, when in actual fact, this happens at both ends of the spectrum. In truth, people are often not bullying because of looks at all. They hide behind that for their cruel taunts, when the reality is that there is an insecurity that lies within themselves.<\/p>\n

A lot of bullies want to seem popular and cool, or they\u2019re afraid that if they don\u2019t draw attention to other people, then the attention will be turned to their own faults or things they\u2019re afraid of being made fun of.<\/p>\n

Bullying in modelling has just as many consequences for the victim as any other type. Some people might say that a model is undeserving of the attention that she\u2019s getting. If she\u2019s not yet at the paid stage, the bully might put it into his or her head that they\u2019ll never make it \u2013 often citing that they\u2019re too ugly and ridiculing their efforts to make them feel embarrassed.<\/p>\n

Bullies very rarely bully because they genuinely have a problem with you, although they will go out of their way to make it feel incredibly personal, for maximum impact. Very often, there is an underlying insecurity within themselves, which causes them to be spiteful. Sometimes, they\u2019re jealous.<\/p>\n

Of course, when it feels so real, and undoubtedly IS so real in so many cases, it\u2019s not okay to let comments (and worse) slide, just because the perpetrator may have an underlying reason. So what can you do?<\/p>\n

What Can You Do About Being Bullied As A Model?<\/strong><\/p>\n